Why Do I Prefer Being In My Masculine?

Episode 20: Stuck in Survival Mode – Trauma, Masculine Overdrive & Reclaiming Your Feminine Power
In this liberating episode of The Trauma Queen, Jessica Ella dives into a deeply resonant question for so many women: “Why am I always in my masculine—and why does my feminine feel unsafe?” The answer, as always, lies in trauma.

Jess explores how societal conditioning, emotional wounds, and survival responses from unhealed trauma push women into a permanent state of doing, achieving, and controlling—disconnected from their feminine essence and stuck in masculine overdrive.

⚖️ In this episode, you’ll discover:

• The key differences between masculine and feminine energy—and how trauma can distort both

• Why many women subconsciously associate feminine softness with weakness, exposure, or danger

• How past abuse, rejection, or betrayal shaped your nervous system to equate safety with control

• The identity you formed around being “independent” or “too strong to need help”—and how it’s costing you your joy

• Trauma-informed tools to help you soften, receive, and return to your body without shame or fear

Jess shares her personal story of healing from masculine burnout, and how embracing her feminine didn’t make her less powerful—it made her healed, magnetic, and whole.

This episode is a soulful guide for the brave woman ready to stop surviving and start thriving—in love, in her body, and in her feminine energy.

💫 Ready to reclaim your full power and find balance? Start here: https://linktr.ee/jessellaainsworth