Hey, I’m Jessica Ella
Ella was my middle name.
After my divorce someone suggested I take it as my last name and it just felt sooooo ME!
I am a women’s healing expert, speaker, podcast host & the founder of the AARUKA healing modality. In the last 5 years I have worked 1:1 with thousands of women to help them transform their pain into power
What pulled me to this work?
Life certainly didn't deal me a favourable hand.
I have studied every type of healing, inside out. My obsession with healing began when I was 20 years old (I’m 34) and I have made it my personal mission to understand how to heal from every single angle possible. There is nothing I haven’t worked with (personally or with my clients)
I live in a home that I own on the picturesque Mornington Peninsula with my two boys (River & Banjo) & my partner Gav.
I have a successful business, a beautiful family & friendship circle, a loving healthy relationship & I LOVE being a mum.
But it wasn’t always like this.
I am WILDLY passionate about helping women to heal their past wounds, recreate their identity & live a free life that makes them feel all-the-way alive...
Because I know what it feels like to carry deep wounds, despise who I am & feel trapped, no matter where I am or what I am doing. That was my reality for the first 30 years of life
I am one of those people who could spend hours telling you about the horrible things that have happened in my life, and I would still have MANY things left unsaid.
So, I’m going to summarise my life to give you an understanding of what I have personally healed myself.
When I was 6 years old I lost my virginity to a family member by brutal rape. From 3-12 years old I was sexually abused & psychologically tortured by my father & developed what was later diagnosed as Stockholm Syndrome. When I was around 20 years old, he also raped me.
My father was critical, harsh & put me down regularly. He was also physically abusive at times leaving permanent damage. I was raised by him to live in constant fear of being abducted or attacked as he was involved in a world I wish to know nothing about.
I remember one night when I was 5 years old, he came into my room to hold a pillow over my face, over & over, telling me he was going to kill me & bury me in the backyard.
I was bullied in primary school, every.single.day. I often went through periods of having no friends at all where I would eat lunch in the teachers area. In high school I was bullied some more.
My best friend that I made in high school (the only person I ever confided in) was killed in a hit & run when I was 15 years old.
I have been cheated on, lied to, controlled & treated poorly in almost every past relationship I have been in.
I have had a molar pregnancy, an emergency abortion, chronic health issues & when I was in my late 20s I was bitten by a tick & contracted Lyme Disease that took my body down FAST.
I could go on and on… but I think you get the picture!
And I want YOU to know this life too
You don’t have to come from where I have come from (trauma),
but you can certainly go where I am going &
that is towards a life that feels like heaven on earth.
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